Don’t let anyone rush you through your healing process. It is not selfish to take the necessary time that you need in order to heal wholly. Don’t let anyone tell you that taking time to heal is selfish. In fact, it is selfish to rush others through their process just because your pace is different. Forgive and continue on your healing journey.
Just a little something about forgiveness.
The main thing about forgiveness is recognizing that others, just like us, are humans and can make mistakes, and, becoming okay with that fact. I don’t think it means you give in and be open to hurt and pain all over again, or that you have to live up to their expectations and rush yourself through your feelings – forgiveness means you let go and let yourself heal at your own pace. It means you’ve chosen to move forward by taking them out of the equation. It doesn’t have to mean that everything is okay. Be gentle with yourself.