My first major symptom showed up just a couple of months before I turned 18. Four years of internal resistance + pushing my body, several injections, a total of 20-30 doctors/physiotherapists, 1 open-surgery and a couple of minimally invasive surgeries later I was finally diagnosed with EDS Type 3 — a label that has since been attached to my name.
There was a huge confusion around the terms “#Elhersdanlos Type 3” and “#Hypermobility Syndrome” but I knew #life wasn’t going to look the same, no matter what the world wanted to refer to this condition as. I remember knowing deep in my core, that life was about to take a drastic turn and there was no going back. I felt so relieved when my day to day experience was validated and that for once, I wasn’t “too young to have pain”. At that time, having a label that summed up my experience, a logical reasoning behind my suffering mattered so much and that attitude helped me pave my way towards getting a #diagnosis.
Every time I look back, I am convinced that everything had to unfold the way it did in order to bring me where I am today. I wouldn’t have been here had I not trusted a part of me that just knew something was off #balance; that my body needed more of my attention. That #persistency was necessary to find a label to my symptoms. Today, this label helps me in making practical choices towards my #health. It helps me when I need to find the right kind of help or seek medical attention. It helps me when when I need to keep up with changes and advancements in science and technology. However, this label doesn’t change anything for me on a day to day level. It doesn’t change the fact that my body functions in a more complex manner and has very specific needs. It hasn’t made the acceptance process any easier.
Of course, while the underlying symptoms of all those dealing with EDS (same type) might be similar, how one experiences these symptoms, the intensity and degree of severity can be vastly different and individual to each person. I think understanding this allows each of us to have our experience and also be compassionate towards one another.