It doesn’t matter if you’re single or in a relationship, there is always (always) an opportunity to pause, breathe and remind yourself that you are your own first before you can be someone else’s.
If you’re single and haven’t met the love of your life yet, the best part is – you still have enough time to start practicing self-acceptance and self-love, to complete yourself first before trying to complete someone else or having someone else complete you. To become comfortable being alone with yourself first, so you can deeply enjoy the moments of togetherness with someone else. You have all the time in this world to learn how to be gentle and patient with yourself. Practicing self-love gives you an opportunity to celebrate a day of love, every day of the year. Putting yourself first is not selfish; it is necessary – to cultivate a healthy relationship with your own mind and body, and with your loved ones.
If you’re in a relationship, it’s only healthy, if not even more necessary, to find some time with yourself. Whether that’s to sit in peace with yourself , to do things you love or to simply validate yourself for being who you are; regardless of the validation you may receive from someone else. Being there for yourself first allows you the emotional, mental and even the physical capacity to be there for those you love even more. There’s no way one can give out of an empty well. Practicing self -love becomes even more important when you’re in a relationship because as you continue to strengthen the bond between your own mind and body, you encourage others to do the same. As you recognize your own needs, you recognize and respect the needs of others. This way, your relationship grows into a beautiful partnership, and you each become an integral part of it. Celebrating a relationship that has its foundation in place becomes a daily practice, not just a once -in- a -year event.
Choose to celebrate love ( of all kinds) every, single (or not) day of your life. Because love is within you, not next to you or no where to nowhere to be found.
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